The romance of Penelope Smyth and Carlo Ferdinado di Borbonne, Prince of Capua sounds like a fairy tale.
Penelope was born in Waterford in 1815, while her beau was four years her elder. The pair met in the mid-1830s but the circumstances of this meeting are unknown. What is known though is that they quickly became infatuated with each other. On May 7, 1836 they eloped to Scotland much to the disapproval of the prince’s family.
Turtle Bunbury goes into to detail of this rift in his article A SCANDALOUS AFFAIR – PRINCESS PENELOPE (1815 – 1882)
Penelope was never forgotten in her home and a memorial to her in St Mary’s Collegiate Church in Youghal reads:
In memoriam Her Royal Highness Penelope Caroline, Princess of Capua, daughter of Grice Smyth of Ballynatray, Co. Waterford, born 19th July 1805, died 13th December 1882. The beloved wife and faithful widow of His Royal Highness Carlo Ferdinando di Borbonne, Prince of Capua, who died 2nd April 1862. This memorial devoted to a devoted and lamented mother is erected by her loving and beloved son and daughter, His Royal Highness Prince Francesco Carlo di Borbonne and her Royal Highness Victoria Augusta Ludovica Isabella Amelia Philomina Helena Penelope did Borbonne Capua.
In the same church there is a memorial to her father Grice Smyth, which reads:
Sacred to the Memory of Grice Smyth Esq of Ballinatre in the county of Waterford who having endured a most painful illness for ten years with perfect resignation to the will of God; departed this life in the City of Limerick; on the 18th Day of January ANNO DOMINI 1816, and in the 51st year of his age.
His remains are deposited near this place in the same tomb with those of his ancestors, the Earls of Cork and Burlington.
As a brother, husband, Parent and friend he was most affectionate generous and sincere.
This monument is erected to his memory by his widow Mary Broderick Smyth daughter of the late Henry Mitchell, Esquire, of Mitchells Fort, is testimony of her esteem and love.
He was also remembered in the Limerick Chronicle on the 19th of January 1816
Died: This morning at his lodgings on George’s Street, after a tedious illness, Grice Smyth, Esq. of Ballinatre Co. Waterford.Limerick Chronicle 19 Jan 1816
Penelope was only a few months old when her father Grice passed away in Limerick. It is unknown what he was doing in Limerick at the time of his death.
After Prince Carlo’s death Penelope retired to Ville Reale where she spent the rest of her life.